Kindness

Before we get started talking about kindness, maybe we should agree on exactly what kindness is. One definition of kindness I found online defines kindness as this: The quality of being friendly, generous and considerate—doing voluntary, intentional acts that benefit another. Let’s go with that definition, while I write about the actual meaning of kindness (more…)

On Feeling Grief

After almost six years living with a brain injury from a massive stroke, I’m kind of what you might call a pro. And after all the writing and research I’ve done for the past five years, you’d think I’d have a pretty good handle on what brain injury is all about. You might think I’ve (more…)

A close up view of the tip of a black ink pen with text that reads In my view, the essay form of writing is one of the most expressive and flexible forms of writing

An Essay About Writing Essays

One of the first pieces I wrote was in answer to readers who wanted to know about writing and structuring a piece of writing. I got great feedback on that one so I figured I would do a bit of an update—not all of you reading were here last time.

To recap, I originally advised the structure outlined below.

When writing, you are implicitly starting out with a purpose or premise, whether or not you state it directly; you can imply it. The implication is something like, I want you to know about, think, feel, do, believe…something. My purpose here, with this very essay, may be paraphrased as, I want to tell you something about writing. That’s called the organizing statement. In a minute I’ll explain why it’s called that.

In response, you, the reader on some level, is asking, why should I know about writing or what should I know (or even, why should I care). This reader response to the organizing statement is called the organizing question.

Now on to the good stuff.

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Brain Injury and Sleep Disorders

Those of us with traumatic brain injuries (TBI) know how important sleep is for recovery from the injury. Sleeping plays a big part in helping our brains heal after a traumatic brain event. The more quality sleep, the better and faster the brain can heal. Continuous learning about sleep facts, sleep disorders, and sleep hygiene (more…)

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TBI Superhero

As my recovery from a traumatic brain injury (TBI) progresses I get closer and closer to being a real TBI superhero.  I think after I iron out a few details, I can get my TBI superhero career off the ground.  Let’s do a quick inventory of my superpowers. Let’s see…. Staring down a major stroke (more…)

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Favorite Quotes

This past Christmas I got a gift that’s sure kept on giving: a book titled The 52 Lists Project. It’s a book that is designed to inspire self-reflection and self-discovery. I believe it was given to me to inspire me to look inside myself and to help me develop ideas for my writing. It has (more…)